“Getting divorced, you have to f–king start over,” he said. “You get to reset. It’s not a breakdown, but something in your life broke down.”
Communication between Ex-SpousesHowever, instead of blaming his ex-wife – like he used to in some of his older comedy shows – he claims now that he has changed his mentality. There are several reasons Rock has toned down the negativity when it comes to discussing his divorce and ex-wife.
For one, he said, “I asked myself, ‘Do I want to be angry for a year?’ It’s not a cool place to be. It’s not healthy.”Secondly, he claims it’s not fair that he can go out and bash his ex, but that his ex doesn’t have a platform to defend herself. “It’s not fair”. “I have a mic, she doesn’t. God forbid people are bugging her in the supermarket. That’s not cool. I’m going to have to see her at weddings and graduations.”
Custody BattlesRock, like other fathers going through divorce, had a rough time dealing with custody issues. Not just the battles with his ex-wife, but with himself and the children too. For example, he spoke candidly about his emotions, that he cried once, “during the custody battle” over his two daughters, Zahra and Lola Rock. In order to be a more involved father, he moved closer to his children.
“All my friends assume I moved into the city after my divorce, away from my girls. When I say I bought a house around the corner, it blows their minds.”Rock also spoke about the angry feelings his children express. In fact, at one point in the Rolling Stone interview, rock got candid and admitted: “My own daughter has blocked me on Instagram. They grow up so quick.” I’ve written about Chris Rock’s divorce before, because his comments on his divorce have been both funny and surprising. For example, while his divorce was a custody battle (he claimed that his ex-wife had “repeatedly refused to permit him normal and usual access to the children) he also said: “When you see me on ‘Dancing With the Stars’ . . . I’m not on crack, that’s just alimony!” The Rolling Stone article is here.